Darren , you were more like a brother to me than just a brother-in-law . I owe you so much . You helped me keep a roof over my head , literally . You helped me keep old cars on the road . You were there for me through some of the worst times in my life . We always had a laugh , though . The sadness I feel since you left is your absence . I hope that the sadness will soon ne replaced with the joy of your memory . Until we meet again . David